Emberly Autumn's Mommy

The only people who wreck homes are the people who live in them…

If someone cheats it is no different then someone who does drugs,drinks,

Gambles,eats to much,nags to much..etc…

Everyone does something different to get past the pain..

Relationships are hard they are not all sunshine and sometimes it is comforting and hard to become deaf to words that make you feel good as opposed to someone who calls you names they shouldn’t everyday or does things that make you feel good that your partner doesn’t…

It’s kinda like a man who marrys a skinny person and then she gets fat..

Something changed and the mans not happy and the woman expects him to stay and shes the one who couldnt control her eating habbits….

You used to be my hero,
And everything I knew.
You use to be the one I counted on,
You were in my dreams too.
I use to prey night and day,
That one day you will find happiness.
I hoped that your heart wouldn’t be broken,
I prey that you will smile.
I laughed at the stupid saying,
That came bestowing out of your mouth when I was upset.
You used to be my hero,
In more then just one way.
You were my best friend,
I use to worship you everyday,
And friends we shall always be.
But how I can live my life for the one,
That I love.
As time filies,
The good memories seem to fade away.
For the tears shed every day band night.
You used to be my hero,
But just lately you get to mad.
I don’t think you realize,
Just how much I love you my friend.
We use to talk for hours every single night,
now I barely hear from you,
Without an arugment or fight.
You promised you’d never leave me,
And I promised the same.
But it feels like we’re slipping,
in the same routine again.
I fight monsters out of your closet,
And demons in your dreams.
I’d hold you close to my heart,
Just the very same.
So if you say you love me,
As much as I love you.
Quit pushing me away,
And say I do love you too!!

~*Love*~ 
Love isn’t about money nor gifts,
Love isn’t about vacations and “getaways”.
Love isn’t about you,
Love isn’t about me.
Love is about trust.
Love is about building a friendship.
Love is us;
not just me,
not just you,
it’s about us.
Today,
Tomorrow,
For the rest of our lives….
LOVE.
It’s what keeps us together
By each others side,
Always and forever?

Kids are awesome but lemme just be for real..

When you’re in a broken family you could move mountains for them kids and they wouldn’t appreciate it..

Not to mention they just feel they are entitled to all your shit since your with their parent..

Make sure you know what you’re getting yourself into before you date someone with a family..

If theres no groundrules at first them kids will run the whole relationship..

Point blank..

And dont ever when you fight with your spouce undercut the other one by saying..

you dont have to listen to them theyre not your mom/dad…

If you do..

U might as well hang it up!…

Good Morning…

Forgiveness is one of the hardest things ever to practice..

Apologizing is never easy either…

Most times the person who hurt you is hurting too..

I’ve hurt lots of people..

Nothing to be proud of..

I know that when I did find the courage to apologize that most people were unforgiving..

Which shocked me because all of the same people I had hurt,hurt me repeatedly..

Then I realized..

I was better off without them because my relationship with them had been one sided in the way that they had never been sorry for hurting me and quick to dismiss me…

In life we all make mistakes…

Try to find forgiveness life is short.♥

Why God Gave Women Tears…
Author Unknown…
A little boy asked his mother
 ”Why are you crying?”
 ”Because I’m a woman”,
 she told him.
 ”I don’t understand”,
 he said.
 His mum just hugged him
 and said, “And you never will”
Later the little boy asked
 his father, “Why does mother seem to cry for
 no reason?”
 ”All women cry for no reason”,
 was all his dad could say.
 The little boy grew up and became a man,
 still wondering why women cry.
 Finally he put in a call to God; and when God got on
 the phone, he asked, “God, why do women cry so easily?”
God said:
 ”When I made the woman she had to be special.
I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the
 world; yet, gentle enough to give comfort
 I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and
 the rejection that many times comes from her children.
 I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going
 when everyone else gives up, and take care of her
 family through sickness and fatigue without
 complaining. .I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under
 any and all circumstances, even when her child has
 hurt her very badly. I gave her strength to carry her man through his
 faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his
 heart. I gave her wisdom to know that a good man never
 hurts his woman, but sometimes tests her strengths and
 her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.
 And finally, I gave her a tear to shed
 This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is
 needed.

You see:
 The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears,
 the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her
 hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes,
 because that is the doorway to her heart - the place
 where love resides.